Long time no see - Nata's quick update

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06-08-2017, 07:30 PM

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Nata1980

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Long time no see - Nata's quick update

I missed you guys

Nothing major in terms of news - except 15 lbs loss (I don't weigh myself - went for annual checkup turns out I am lighter

Emotionally I consider myself completely free of XAH - nothing he does affects me anymore.

He has been doing well with his visitation and spending time with DS.

I woke up one Sunday at the end of April and decided that I may want to go out on a date! Online dating is a mess of it's own - so many folks with obvious issues, but I have talked to many decent ones and have been on two dates already - first was meh, second was better - hope to go to another one

Just got glowing performance review at work and my boss has recommended me for promotion!

Things are excellent

06-08-2017, 07:34 PM

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Maudcat

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Glad to hear it, Nata. Thanks for checking in.

06-09-2017, 05:48 AM

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Hummer

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Thanks for the positive update

06-09-2017, 06:07 AM

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LexieCat

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Happy to hear things are going so well!

06-09-2017, 08:41 AM

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firebolt

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So happy to read this update Nata!!

06-09-2017, 08:49 AM

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hopeful4

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Good to hear from you, and glad things are going well!!!

06-09-2017, 09:25 AM

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Smarie78

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*Gulp* That is amazing! A fun sneak-preview into what life could be like for those still struggling. Dating is so exciting! Be cautious and be choosey. I tend to see red flags immediately, but my heart doesn't always. It's so easy to repeat unhealthy relationships (it's occurred to me I have a history even before Abf!)

You truly deserve the very best now after moving on. You get to choose the partner that you finally deserve - go get 'em! Keep us posted on your dates!