Need some ideas on how to handle this... Thanks everyone for sharing all your stories and advice!!! I am having a problem I am hoping to get help/ideas on how to handle! I have gone no contact with narcissistic xab but he has found a "loophole". Words with friends game on my phone!!! He keeps inviting me to play games and sending miss you messages. I cant figure how to block him! I have changed my user name but that doesnt work..I have other ongoing games and dont want to delete the whole ap because I enjoy playing! I know that responding just keeps me sucked into his game...any ideas for me on how to handle this! Thanks and Happy first day of summer! |
you get rid of the GAME. it's just a game...on a phone. |
My sister's ex used this as a way to get around things too, she never found a way to block him so she just dumped the game for a couple of months until his short attention span forgot all about it after a period of non-response. |
I'm sorry, I agree that the healthy move would be to dump the game. He will see you dumped it and give up. In a few months maybe you can start back up. You dumped him, you can dump the game. Be strong! |
Thanks...thats what I figured...feels like he wins if I ignore or delete the game so I guess I accept the things I can not change and change the things I can!!! |
IMO, he only wins if he succeeds in contacting you. You win if you delete the game and he can't bug you anymore. |
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