Wishful133

Earlier I had posted about how I was having problems detaching and how desperately I wanted to ask AH how his recovery was going. Everyone here told me to let him handle it himself.

Well stupidly, I couldn't keep my big ole mouth shut. I asked him how he was doing and why he hasn't gone to a meeting lately.

He told me to keep out of it, that it was none of my business and he was highly offended I would intrude. I should have listened to all of you.

Recovering2

Don't be too hard on yourself. We've all been there, it's hard initially to stay out of it when you care so much. Progress....not Perfection.

dandylion

Someone recently posted: CONTACT==FRESH PAIN

dandylion

DreamsofSerenity

Yeah, everyone was so right about NC. My exabf resurfaced, attacking me in an email. I just couldn't resist writing him back and defending myself. It was a huge mistake that totally set me back in my recovery. I feel like a complete idiot. NC is the key to serenity; I am convinced of it now.