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Old 05-24-2013, 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Woohoo View Post
I am so sorry you are hurting, but i agree with the others..she isn't ready..she needs to find herself now. Do what makes you happy and know you did your best for her and gave her all you had. It is NOT you it is her problems. Hang in there and God bless!
Thank you, those were almost her exact words. It is not me. It is her problems.
Sad part, as much as I know it is out of my hands, I just want to be there to help her.

But ya know what? Looking back, I tried that in the past and wasn't capable of doing anything to help when I really think about it.


As all SOs know, the feeling of helplessness is the worst part.
You want to get "tagged in" and kick this thing's a$$ for the person you love.


Nevertheless, I have faith.
Not that we will get back together but that what is meant to be will.


Thanks,
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Old 05-24-2013, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Spantoh View Post
Nevertheless, I have faith.
Not that we will get back together but that what is meant to be will.
This is one of THE most important attitudes you can possibly have.

I often don't know what's best for me. I will spend all kinds of energy trying to make things happen without REALLY knowing that it's for the best. Sometimes having that thing NOT happen is what's best.

I predict a good recovery for you.
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