Words From A Battered Woman

Old 04-23-2013, 06:01 PM
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Words From A Battered Woman

Words From A Battered Woman
(A Senyru)

I’m in love with you
followed by I’m so sorry
makes hearts stop beating
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Ladies and Gents,

I saw that poem today and thought of you. Thank you to those of you who helped carry me through the worst months of my life. I have been free, unequivocally unburdened by alcoholics, for nearly 9 months now.

I am blissfully happy.

For those of you who are getting out, I am with you in spirit. For those of you debating whether to get out, please know there is a happy life on the other end. No matter how broken or damaged or worthless or unlovable your alcoholic has told you you are.

I survived permanent, body-altering, life-changing physical battering. And yet, I maintain the emotional battering that we suffer at the hands of alcoholics who "love" us can be even worse.

You are all entitled to live battering-free. Each and every one of you.

I'm grateful for all of your advice. I pray each of you in this community find peace. And I leave you today with these words of wisdom from Winnie the Pooh -- a silly childhood character perhaps, but please know how absolutely wise his words are: “Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”

Peace and much love.
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Blessings on your new path, Chrissy. Many, many blessings. ((((Hugs))))
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Thank you so much Chrissy44.

amazing post and inspiring message.

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Many blessings, and oh so very true. Thanks for the reminder, as I've been struggling the last few days myself after having contact with my X.
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Old 04-23-2013, 08:20 PM
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Chrissy, what an inspiring post! Could you re-post it at the sticky at the top of the page "What is abuse?" Then it would remain available to people who have been battered and could inspire them.

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Wow - what a moving post! Needed to read this at the point I'm at now. Reassuring to know there is light at the end of the tunnel!

Yay for you!!!!!
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Old 04-23-2013, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted by ShootingStar1 View Post
... Could you re-post it at the sticky at the top of the page "What is abuse?" ...
No need, ShootingStar, managing the "stickies" is what us Moderators are for. I will let people post on this thread a few more days before I "stick" it.

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Old 04-24-2013, 05:31 AM
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Chrissy~

So, so happy for you. Wishing you blessings and light on your path. Thank you for your words and this beautiful update!

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Old 04-24-2013, 07:18 AM
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Originally Posted by Chrissy44 View Post
“Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”
I often leave DD little notes in her lunchbox to find midday & ironically, the one I put in on Monday was exactly this quote above. I love it & she did too.

What an inspiring post, thank you so much for taking the time to share!
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Beautiful post that brings tears to my eyes. Thank you Chrissy, and continued Blessings in your life.
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How great to read this post! I've worked in the DV field for many years, but there is nothing like the voice of experience to give hope to others.

So glad things are going so well for you!
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I never knew Winnie was so wise!

I'm so happy for you Chrissy, you're FREE! and there's no feeling like freedom.
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