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Old 03-30-2013, 09:55 AM
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So, my alcoholic bf relapsed yesterday morning, I'm not mad, or upset, maybe a little disappointed he was doing so well. 1 1/2 months, He got so hung over yesterday, and he's like I'm never doing that again, even though I'm sure he will.
I had all these plans for us when I got off work but he was so sick that we couldn't do it. Maybe today I guess. His new job has really given him a new confidence. He feels so bad and guilty and he said he hated himself right now. Well I don't think that is right to say. He has all these goals.
We are seeing his Kids more, which is amazing, they love it. They are hugging me now when they leave (but wont in front of there mother).
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Old 03-30-2013, 12:48 PM
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Are you going to Alanon Meetings?
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Old 03-31-2013, 09:45 AM
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yes, I am, I am also reading codependent no more. I've been going to Alanon for 2 months hard.
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Old 03-31-2013, 09:51 AM
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Hang in there. Can you keep the plans yourself? Leave him to nurse his hangover and go do something fun?
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yes, I am, I am also reading codependent no more. I've been going to Alanon for 2 months hard.
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