ZiggyB

Hi all,
Some of you may know after we broke up, the axbf took a job right across the street from where I work.

I just saw him walking into a bar when I was out getting my lunch, it was 12:15 pm. Undoubtedly he was out getting a "nooner" or two.

I almost went in to say something to him but then realized it is such a relief not to have to deal with him anymore and worry about his drinking. I've been casually dating someone who does 90 minutes of yoga a day and actually takes care of his health and we are having a pretty good time together.

Getting through the past 8 months has been a really difficult time in my life but apparently he hasn't changed and never will...

OhBoy

Way to go! Nice to realize its not your problem eh?

ZiggyB

OhBoy,
Yes. And believe me, the old co-dependent me was ready to follow him into the bar to find out if he was okay, or e-mail his friends or something like that. I'm proud of myself that I did absolutely nothing.

DreamsofSerenity

I'm glad you didn't do anything. And that you had a chance to see he's still drinking, and the break up was for the best. Didn't that make you feel good??

ZiggyB

Not exactly. I mean, I'm glad I got out of it but after I saw him I felt kind of depressed.

Mostly I wish I didn't have to keep running into him all the time. Saw him this morning on his way into a liquor store -- I hope he was just buying a soda or something but I guess it's none of my business anymore.