Robh850

Hang in there. People tend to lose thier mind when the D word is tossed around, couple that with an A, you are bound to have a case study of mental issues coming at you.

Focus on your health, the rest will take care of itself. As numerous people have already said, consulting or talking to someone does not constitute a decision.

Prayinig for you, Rest as much as possible, be strong

GreenBeans

He's rambling.
You have rejected him (instead of the other way around). You did a very good thing for yourself. Ignore his threats and focus on you. Don't let the word "divorce" throw you in a tizzy. I'm sure you have more than enough people who will be willing to help you, IF he was actually serious about it right now. Which I highly doubt.
I'm sending prayers your way.
((hugs))

Rosiepetal

Let it be.
The most important thing in your life is you & your children.
Let your support people help, focus on yourself.
You've done the right thing for you at the moment.
So sorry for all the hurt & sending you many many well vibes.

iamthird

The hardest thing is dealing with being abandoned by my AH during this illness. This is the hardest thing to grieve for him, yet be vulnerable enough to ask for help from others when everything else is telling me to curl up in a ball. I am really in a dark place.

Argnotthisagain

I am so sorry! I wish it weren't so...and I wish that we could all change this instantly for you!! Truly!

Please get as much rest as you can and love from your kids and friends.
Wish I could do more than send prayers for your strength and comfort!

And know that protecting yourself from the A's behavior is a strong vote for your self respect. Even though it doesn't feel that way.

((((((You))))))