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OMG!! Just when I think he couldn't get any lower....THIS!!!!.

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Old 03-19-2013, 06:55 PM
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Angry OMG!! Just when I think he couldn't get any lower....THIS!!!!.

Been thinking.....soo today I got home. Decided to check something out.....Brand new rx of Anti-seizure EMPTY, secret stash of $$ GONE and a serious pile of SICK porn (i wont even get into which kind)?? Yeah. THAT kind of OMG.

Also.....the bail $$ I was supposed to get back when he went to court for public drunkenness?? Found out the charge and warrant was for willful nonsuppprt of a child and giving a false name to police.....
And the bail $$$?? Yeah apparently that was gone in September when he failed to show for the court date and ultimately the bail was forfeited and put towards his fines and ticket associated with the arrest.

NOTHING would shock me anymore. He is one. Sick. *You know what*:*******:
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Old 03-19-2013, 06:57 PM
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I don't get it. You mean he broke into your house?
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Old 03-19-2013, 07:34 PM
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No. Like when he was at my house he went through my stuff and took my money, stole my medication and must have had a stash of porn material to masturbate to when i was at work or where ever...when i found this ibremember he told me a few wks prior to NC.....of his "other addictions" one of which was a past serious porn addiction.
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Old 03-19-2013, 07:37 PM
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OK, well, then, it confirms that you're better off without him in your life, right?
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Old 03-19-2013, 07:44 PM
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It all came into focus.
Immediately.
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Old 03-19-2013, 07:58 PM
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That moment of clarity, huh?

Good Morning.

And welcome to . . . the First day of the rest of your life.
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Old 03-19-2013, 11:58 PM
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Been thinking.....soo today I got home. Decided to check something out.....Brand new rx of Anti-seizure EMPTY, secret stash of $$ GONE and a serious pile of SICK porn (i wont even get into which kind)?? Yeah. THAT kind of OMG.

Also.....the bail $$ I was supposed to get back when he went to court for public drunkenness?? Found out the charge and warrant was for willful nonsuppprt of a child and giving a false name to police.....
And the bail $$$?? Yeah apparently that was gone in September when he failed to show for the court date and ultimately the bail was forfeited and put towards his fines and ticket associated with the arrest.

NOTHING would shock me anymore. He is one. Sick. *You know what*:*******:
All of this has hopefully confirmed to you that you are so much better off now. What do you mean by THAT kind of porn? Do you mean child?
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Old 03-20-2013, 02:51 AM
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Dear workingonme11, when the addict is active and using---there is NO other priority. It is like "use or die" for them. The disease (pleasure centers in the brain) wants to be satisfied and there is no "end" to this. Nothing else matters--Nothing and NOBODY.

An addict will gut you like a fish.

You can't fight this; you can only protect yourself.

Please grieve this; let yourself heal ; move on--away from this destruction.

These are hard facts and "learning" them usually involves suffering, but you have a chance to save your own life.

I understand how bad this hurts. I am so sorry you have suffered this!

very sincerely, dandylion
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