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Thinking of you this morning Kale, and hoping you're okay. I think whatever we may deal with when living with an A....when things become violent all bets are off. Done. You have to protect yourself. Too often when we feel uncomfortable, we talk ourselves out of listening to our instinct....or we let others talk us out of it. Listen to your gut...stay safe.
I agree it's difficult when those closest to you don't get it. So now you know not to rely on them for support in this decision making process. That's okay. You don't need their permission or approval to decide your life's path. They haven't lived in your house, and you say he's good at hiding it. So they don't "get it". Let's admit, unless you're in it, not many people can understand how truly difficult it can be. Seek your support in AlAnon and on SR. Those are the places you will find people who "get it".
Most of all....stay safe. Hugs.
I agree it's difficult when those closest to you don't get it. So now you know not to rely on them for support in this decision making process. That's okay. You don't need their permission or approval to decide your life's path. They haven't lived in your house, and you say he's good at hiding it. So they don't "get it". Let's admit, unless you're in it, not many people can understand how truly difficult it can be. Seek your support in AlAnon and on SR. Those are the places you will find people who "get it".
Most of all....stay safe. Hugs.
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