What's with the Jekyll and Hyde behavior? Are there any RA this side of the board that can shed any light on exactly what the deal is with this Jekyll and Hyde behavior that is so common with alcoholism? |
It,s just alcoholism, it goes with the territory.
Originally Posted by cr995
(Post 3803057)
Are there any RA this side of the board that can shed any light on exactly what the deal is with this Jekyll and Hyde behavior that is so common with alcoholism? |
My Dr. Jeckle/Mr. Hyde experience came with my mom. She was a lovely, attractive women who worked retail as a Cosmetician and a mother of 4 kids and long term marriage. I was born the 2nd child, 11 mos. younger than my brother. From what i recall, she would drink with prescription meds, which was a deadly mixture causing her behavior to change from good to bad and then would have amnesia not remembering the hurt, abuse, pain, mentally, verbally, emotionally, and most of all physically placed upon me. No one outside the home ever knew she had a different kind of personality. She always protraiyed a kind, caring, functional person in public with her job. However, I always knew what kind of a person she really was. And the sad part of it was, i could never tell anyone. She was a sick person dealing with her own demons which eventually cause me to divorce myself from her forever. However, i had to forgive and understand her so that I could heal, grow and move on for myself in recovery/sobriety. Addiction definitely affects all those involved. Especially loved ones. |
Alcoholism causes brain damage in the alcoholic. If the alcoholic stops drinking, the damage doesn't go away, but the brain does what it can to create new pathways to restore functioning. While the alcoholic is still drinking, though, their thoughts are distorted. Their behavior changes. Some alcoholics become mean and loud and obnoxious, even violent, when they drink. Others kind of get quiet and maudlin and feel sorry for themselves and victimized by the world. As Earthworm said, the "split personality" goes with the territory. Real recovery brings out who the person REALLY is. |
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