ZiggyB

Thanks Rosie...
I feel just awful but it was the longest relationship I've had outside of my marriage. I know it's just attachment. The feelings are irrational but part of the grieving process I guess.

On the same website I saw a photo of HIM and I think he just looks a little sad, tired and crazy at this point. I feel kind of relieved that I got away from him. I've never felt so bad about myself as when I was with him and my self esteem took a major hit. I believe a man should be there to lift you up and not knock you down all of the time... now I can be ME without fear of any petty attacks or criticisms.

Shadydeal

ZiggyB,
Ditto, I really think it very natural to have these feelings as I am dealing w the same thing. My XABF just moved in w some ol high school flame! I think given the time and energy along with abuse we have allowed there is even more grief involved! I know that I am grateful that I am no longer riding that emotional roller coaster and or dealing w full time pain but it does hurt! I hurts to feel used and insignificant! Well, this is how feel! I was in love with what he could have been certainly not who he was! but reality
is that I know it's my blessing too! Take care

Carol Star

"The best revenge is to live a good life."( who said that ?)