When it gets violent...

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Old 01-12-2013, 07:21 PM
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When it gets violent...

So my now ex-gf whom I live with just became very angry. I asked her what is going on. She said "All i hear is you typing and it's DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!!!" and with that, she repeatedly punched the bathroom door like a punching bag.

I hate my life.
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Old 01-12-2013, 07:31 PM
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There some really good info in the stickies in this forum Sarah.

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...out-abuse.html

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Old 01-12-2013, 08:17 PM
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I am sorry! Hope the evening improves!
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Old 01-12-2013, 08:49 PM
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Wow. Sorry. She still drinks?
If so...explains it. I hope you find peace because it sounds as though she nay not.
Perhaps lookimg for other places to live?
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:58 AM
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If you hate your life then change your life. I would be looking for a new place to live - or finding her a new place to live. Fast.
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Old 01-13-2013, 05:03 AM
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I have not a single penny to my name. So moving out is impossible. I finally found a job but it is part time and they are giving me 10 hours a week. It's going to be a very very long time until I have money for a deposit.

And yes she drinks to the point where she should be in a coma. .39 BAC
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Old 01-13-2013, 06:46 AM
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Do you know anyone who needs a roomate or is renting a room? That way you don't need the deposit and first/last rent. Put your feelers out, ask around. The situation you're describing can go very very wrong. Be careful.
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Old 01-13-2013, 08:32 AM
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Sounds like she has a lot of rage to work through and she's taking it out on you right now.
Sometimes we confuse other people's faces with the people we're really mad at.
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Old 01-13-2013, 03:06 PM
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I don't know anyone in the area. And I'm afraid to look online for people because that can be very false information. I don't trust myself to be a good judgement of people so I'm really worried about the type of person I would pick out for my next roommate!! Could be much, much worse.
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I would agree that a complete stranger would not be a good choice. I hope something comes through for you soon. I know firsthand how difficult it can be living with an ex.
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