Anon12

I think my XABF has given my address (i.e. his old one) to a casino in his new town - they've just sent him a free voucher to come down again (well, that would confirm he's still drinking and now gambling too!).

I know it isn't old spam as it says 'can we tempt you back?' and it's nowhere near here so can't be from when we were together.

I'm still getting his post (returnig to sender now but taking a while) and now this! Can he do this? Should I ask him to not give my address and I know he is doing it?

I'm on the home straight in terms of NC - had to be back in contact because of the car/court case but no real need to be in contact anymore. In short, his accident in June (that he got the wheel replaced on car afterwards) caused more damage discovered in full service so I had to shell out several hundred quid to sort it out. I've told him and he stupidly told me not to spend any more money on the car. He forgets, I have to tax it or be fined and I can't sell it unfortunately. I still have a debt on it so I might as well keep it and use it, assuming costs don't get ridiculous.

No 'sorry, i didn't know that' or 'i'll pay you back'. I know, I know, don't go looking for bread...

I wrote here about wanting to write a letter to XABF - well, I wrote it last weekend after the car issues and wrote stuff that was factual and how I feel. Tried not to point the finger (so hard!). Then I slept on it.

I have been so angry about various things that I've added to letter daily! i'll probably never send it just because it is nevereneding! On a serious note though, I want to say it so I can let it go and move on. I don't care if he doesn't do anything, I will know I wrote it and he will know I know (if you know what I m ean?!).

Just so utterly p1ssed off.

Katiekate

Hi honey, so sorry you are upset.

Maybe you could just contact whoever sent it and ask to be taken off the mailing list.

big hug, Katie. :ghug3

MsPINKAcres

((Anon12))

hate you are going thru this ~

My question would be - do you think any contact from to your ex will change him?

probably not . . .

This is what I do ~ when I receive anything letter, junk mail, flyer, etc for my exah at my new address - I simply write "Addressee not at this address" on the mail & put it back in the mail ~ that way the post office can do whatever they want with it ~ it's out of my hands.
I then use it as a grateful reminder that I am no longer a part of the insanity that goes on in my exah's world - thank you HP for that blessing

Just my way to take something that could be stressful & try to make it postitive ~

Hope things get better for you soon ~

pink hugs,