Ursula745

So, brother an A, two stints in rehab, two DUIs, one with criminal trespassing attached and the last one with a wanton endangerment charge. Downed some whiskey on his way home afte 30 days clean, passed out, and ran into someone's home. Where does it end? The kid could have been in the room where he hit. It could've been his own house with his own kids.

My heart is broken...

sugarbear1

maybe it's his wake-up call

Love and hugs to you,

Pelican

I'm guessing it was more than *some* whiskey.

He is an alcoholic
Two rehab visits
Two DUI's + other charges

Did you take him off your insurance policy prior to this?

Ursula745

It isn't my insurance policy. I was asking about that for SIL but I think he was still on it.


He's been calling me collect since Monday. I think he wants bail money or an atty. I don't want to talk to him. I feel sad because I feel like he thinks I am abandoning him, but I do not want to talk to him and I will not answer the phone. I haven't talked to him since this happened. He was locked up Friday. My sil has talked to him and won't bail him out either. He's doing all the maniulative crap, talking about how he doesn't have support, he can't live like that in jail, etc.

Don't be a criminal if you don't want to be treated like one! geesh. I'm so pissed, sad, lost. I'm not going to cushion his fall, and I don't want to help him with this, and I don't want to have a conversation with him about it. I don't want to hear what his plans are, why he's sorry, etc.

BoxinRotz

Because you've heard it all before and I don't blame you. Let him figure it out! He did it, let him fix it!

I'm sorry you are having to deal with this.