cr995

So today I had a major problem with my laptop on my first day on a new job working from home. After it turned into a paper weight I totally panicked and as a desperate attempt to get help called STBXAH who is IT wizard, he listened to my problem and then put the phone down on me. Thank God , HP or whoever is up there because I then got problem fixed when I re-booted.

I then emailed AH as I had to say something about his horrid behaviour I was so shocked....why I ask myself. ?
I then spent the afternoon reading through all the emails he has been sending to our kids about the situation with his mother. There he complains about all the horrid things she is now doing to him!! I ask myself CAN HE really not see that he is behaving in the exact same way as her to me..Sorry Rant over.so much for NC - and there I was halfway through reading 'women who love too much' thinking I was finally getting somewhere. Ok rant really over .

Impurrfect

((cr)) - At least you recognize that he hasn't changed! I've done the same - will be doing soooo well in my codie recovery, then something happens and I feel like I'm back at square 1, but at least I don't stay there as long as I used to and it sounds as if you are doing the same.

Hugs and prayers,

Amy

Katiekate

Congratulations you're codependent and you recognize it.

That's progress.

Rosiepetal

You're doing well

Titanic

There were two paper-weights, briefly, in your life today. They blew away after you booted each.

Tuffgirl

Hon, there are no rules to this. It's a learning process and we all have our own timeframe for those. Just don't get hoovered back into things, and you'll be fine.

P.S. I made many of those same calls. Now, I call my work IT department. They don't yell at me or call me names! ; )

stigmatized

lol, that was brilliant!