despite my better judgement
I am the mother of an alcoholic son. He is ill and has caused chaos.
BUT.. you are not only living with an alcoholic but an abuser. Who would abuse you alcohol or not. I know.. I am a counsellor for abused women and you need to GET out now. Call a local shelter in your area for help. You can move on from there and get the proper referrals for counselling, legal help and a myriad of other supports.. ... Do it today. Good luck .. I know how hard it is..
BUT.. you are not only living with an alcoholic but an abuser. Who would abuse you alcohol or not. I know.. I am a counsellor for abused women and you need to GET out now. Call a local shelter in your area for help. You can move on from there and get the proper referrals for counselling, legal help and a myriad of other supports.. ... Do it today. Good luck .. I know how hard it is..
Step One - we admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable. AA is for him. Al-Anon is for you. Step One is the same in both programs. Are either of you in your own recovery?
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He admits he has a problem but its like recovery is not a priority.
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Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Texas
Posts: 1,013
I am the mother of an alcoholic son. He is ill and has caused chaos.
BUT.. you are not only living with an alcoholic but an abuser. Who would abuse you alcohol or not. I know.. I am a counsellor for abused women and you need to GET out now. Call a local shelter in your area for help. You can move on from there and get the proper referrals for counselling, legal help and a myriad of other supports.. ... Do it today. Good luck .. I know how hard it is..
BUT.. you are not only living with an alcoholic but an abuser. Who would abuse you alcohol or not. I know.. I am a counsellor for abused women and you need to GET out now. Call a local shelter in your area for help. You can move on from there and get the proper referrals for counselling, legal help and a myriad of other supports.. ... Do it today. Good luck .. I know how hard it is..
now I'm not saying alcoholics are bad but to say that the family of an alcoholic doesn't suffer mentally and physically by the alcoholic who unintentional yet intentionally as they at times are in denial would be far from truth. So yes with an alcoholic alone I have been abused. Not to say that his drunken slurs wouldn't be considered abuse on theur own.
My only sanctuary to the madness is the few moments sometimes day when he's sober and this online forum even al anon
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