LifeRecovery

So true, so true.

Others I think feel this stuff in other places in their bodies. Jaw and guts are my red flag signals.

Gosh do I want that hook to be as good as I "hope" it will be. That gets me in trouble. For example the two relationships (not both As) that for me have a lot of hooks they are both really fun, spontaneous and joyous people, especially when you first get to know them.

I struggle with accessing that side of myself and I look for that in others.

After getting hooked to that though I realized (later) that there was an insidious underside to these two individuals. One was an A, the other was living with undiagnosed bipolar disease. Though I could recognize that I was struggling in both relationships it is only now many years later that I am learning to take the hook out (and that it is okay to) and figure out if I want a hook free relationship at all (because I do have some of those).

Confetti

Titanic!

Turns out he did talk to the accountant later on, but not when he said that. It is so frustrating....but yes, he is still lying about 4586 other things, so nothing has changed!