Originally Posted by Alucard

Great post. Times are hard now, but in the future, when you have found his replacement, and the man isnt a drunk, but a normal person, you will silently thank yourself and the stars.

Originally Posted by Learn2Live

People who jump from one relationship to another are sick. These folks are just looking for another enabler. A person can enable an alcoholic by drinking with them. The actual PERSON does not matter to the A, it's the enablement they seek. It is nothing to do with us. I have watched AXBF fly into my life like a tornado, disrupting everything and just spinning his wheels in life at a thousand MPH, getting no where, and then goes flying out of my life the same way he flew into it. It's insanity. When you can get enough emotional distance from him, you will begin to be able to see it. It will help you to learn about Detachment and the disease of alcoholism, to get your emotions under control.

Originally Posted by shawty80

mine complained that it was unfair of me to block him on fb because i can unblock him at ANY time and see what he has liked and commented on. cause i'm REALLY worried about what HE thinks is unfair right now!!!