Stupid move on my part
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Stupid move on my part
Last night, AF tripped a bit over a small box. It was far from serious. My reaction was to chucked because I laugh at myself and di something similar last week. Apparently, he was hurt over this and I had cream cheese wiped on my face. I told him that I knew he did it because my laughing hurt his feelings. He denied it. I know I am no angel but I would never do something like that to someone I love. I'm sure I've done some crappy things, but nothing like this.
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I would change the title to this one to..."Stupid move on *his* part."
I do not believe that anyone deserves to have cream cheese wiped on his or her face. How cruel and humiliating. Saddens my heart to hear that this happened to you.
Love and Light,
Lily
I do not believe that anyone deserves to have cream cheese wiped on his or her face. How cruel and humiliating. Saddens my heart to hear that this happened to you.
Love and Light,
Lily
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I have also wondered your age SP?
I have to say, I go from feeling very sorry for you that you keep yourself in an abusive situation accepting of it, to thinking that you are posting on here for a laugh, because I am not sure what your point is. Are you looking for an out of this "relationship" or just....what?
I have to say, I go from feeling very sorry for you that you keep yourself in an abusive situation accepting of it, to thinking that you are posting on here for a laugh, because I am not sure what your point is. Are you looking for an out of this "relationship" or just....what?
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I guess I have trouble with trying to figure out, what's to figure out Sp Eyes. If and when you figure him out, what are you going to do with that information?
I also find it impossible to understand where you are coming from because your postings are so cryptic and it would seem you like to keep it that way.
I also find it impossible to understand where you are coming from because your postings are so cryptic and it would seem you like to keep it that way.
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Originally Posted by gerryP 
I guess I have trouble with trying to figure out, what's to figure out Sp Eyes. If and when you figure him out, what are you going to do with that information?
I also find it impossible to understand where you are coming from because your postings are so cryptic and it would seem you like to keep it that way.
I also find it impossible to understand where you are coming from because your postings are so cryptic and it would seem you like to keep it that way.
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Did you enjoy it?? I think not.
Yes one time my ex threw me to the ground and poured beer in my face. I guess I could have said that he wanted to shampoo my hair with beer because it brings out the highlights.
Just think, was he mad, angry when he did that? If he was that was physical abuse.
Yes one time my ex threw me to the ground and poured beer in my face. I guess I could have said that he wanted to shampoo my hair with beer because it brings out the highlights.
Just think, was he mad, angry when he did that? If he was that was physical abuse.
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There is nothing wrong with trying to understand someone. However, in your case I'm still not understanding why you are try to make sense out of nonsense. Your friend,(you have referred to him as fiance, bf and friend?) is abusive. He abuses you. What IS there to understand?? I highly doubt he was after a food fight based on the circumstances preceeding his wiping cream cheese on your face, but "if" it was...and that's what you "understand" his actions to mean, does that make his abuse ok and acceptable to you?
If you ARE trying to understand his actions by posting here, why then do you seemingly ignore what other posters have offered? Instead you arrive at something "out there" as your explanation and that's the end of it. I really don't get it.
If you ARE trying to understand his actions by posting here, why then do you seemingly ignore what other posters have offered? Instead you arrive at something "out there" as your explanation and that's the end of it. I really don't get it.
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Originally Posted by sparklingeyes
What's wrong with trying to understand someone? I'm not trying to be cryptic.
If you would like support, start by telling your story, on your own thread. This is a safe place to share, so if someone asks you a question, try to answer it so that people might try to help you or offer their similar experiences.
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The intention was just a food fight. I apologize for hijacking anyone's thread. I did receive help when someone mentioned a food fight because that is exactly what was intended. I was in a very abusive relationship 7 years ago, as was he, so we both have scars. It's very difficult when both parties have been severely violated. Thank you for all your feedback. I truly appreciate it and am sorry for any confusion.
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I don't understand, either sparklingeyes. You began this thread by expressing hurt over an action he took. I was the one who mentioned a food fight. Was it an angry response? Or was it all in good fun? You are the only one who can know that.
If it was all in good fun, well...it may be immature but ok...some people like to do silly things.
If he wiped food on your face in anger, its abuse.
If it was all in good fun, well...it may be immature but ok...some people like to do silly things.
If he wiped food on your face in anger, its abuse.
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