Things are coming to a head tomorrow Have to go to court tomorrow for custody of daughter. I love my daughter with all my hear. She would drive me to an early grave with a smile on her face. I hope I never treated my parents that way. Usually, I ran myself ragged living up to everyone's expectations. I am at a loss for words, feelings, and thoughts. Just going to pray about it and keep asking to do God's will. |
Are you trying to regain custody of her?...or what is the hearing about? How old is she? |
Originally Posted by sparklingeyes
(Post 3511815)
Have to go to court tomorrow for custody of daughter. I love my daughter with all my hear. She would drive me to an early grave with a smile on her face. I hope I never treated my parents that way. Usually, I ran myself ragged living up to everyone's expectations. I am at a loss for words, feelings, and thoughts. Just going to pray about it and keep asking to do God's will. |
I'm praying for your daughter. |
You live with an abusive man,don't work, don't have a car and take rides from strange men, flash your boobs at them and you feel that your daughter is better off living with you rather than your parents? Shaking my head in disbelief. |
Originally Posted by tjp613
(Post 3511889)
Are you trying to regain custody of her?...or what is the hearing about? How old is she? |
Thank you for your prayers and not judging me. I'm not perfect but I try. Having a teenager isn't easy, especially when she is extremely brilliant. |
I would never judge you. Just trying to understand here. I know that you are looking for help, people to talk to, but you really don't give us enough to go on. Can you please give us a better picture. |
Now, I must have you confused with someone else, I thought you were in your early 20's? Regardless, being with an active alkie is not going to have a positive impression with the court/judge. |
No, BF is mid 20s. Guess SparklingEyes is older? I'm confused, too. But I wish SE well and hope it all turns out in the best interest of the teenager since that is what such a custody hearing should be about. |
Actually, in most states, a teenager's own wishes would be the most weighty aspect of a custody hearing. And having two teenagers of my own, I will say that no matter how much a parent wants to have custody of a child, I hope the court listens to your daughter. I've seen several instances of when a court goes against a teenager's wish, and I've never seen it end well. |
You live with an abusive man,don't work, don't have a car and take rides from strange men, flash your boobs at them and you feel that your daughter is better off living with you rather than your parents? Shaking my head in disbelief. |
Originally Posted by transformyself
(Post 3514247)
Yep. I think SE is having a blast here. So much doesn't add up. |
Sparklingeyes- how are you getting to court? Are your parents or the father of your daughter fighting with you over custody? I'm confused. Do you want her to come and live with you and your bf? What is the hearing about? |
So! How's Ms. Sparkingeyes doing today? Do you have an update for us? How did court go? |
bumping.. |
I sure hope you're ok Sparkling eyes. I see you're here about every day, but no update on this thread? How did court go? Are you ok?? |
Originally Posted by XXXXXXXXXX
(Post 3514249)
Anyone whO has ever lived with alcoholic can smell bs a mile away. |
I have to go to court again; however, I spoke with my daughter's attorney and told her that I want my daughter but what will make my daughter happy trumps what I want. Her father's death certificate was presented to me since I was in denial and shock about his suicide. It's still very difficult to swallow that he threw himself in front of a train. His addiction won. It destroyed him. There's some guilt left over because I left him when she was four years old The same tape plays over and over..if only I had.....then he may have recovered from addiction. Thank you all for your care and concern. |
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