Was it all a waste?
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Join Date: May 2006
Location: UK
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I'm not grateful for the time I spent with ex, it happened, and there is no changing that, If I could go back and do it again, I wouldn't. But apparently that isn't an option.
I am profoundly grateful for our children, I understand my strengths in a way I didn't before leaving an abusive marriage, I understand me in a way I didn't before. I am assurred of my self-sufficiency in a way that I wasn't before.
It wasn't a waste, because my life is not a waste, and this was a part of it, but I wouldn't choose to repeat it.
I am profoundly grateful for our children, I understand my strengths in a way I didn't before leaving an abusive marriage, I understand me in a way I didn't before. I am assurred of my self-sufficiency in a way that I wasn't before.
It wasn't a waste, because my life is not a waste, and this was a part of it, but I wouldn't choose to repeat it.
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