I'm feeling very guilty.

Old 07-13-2012, 10:27 AM
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Beth, I think there are a good measure of them out there, but they are just not available and on the market because they had the qualities to make things work with their ladies.

That is just my theory.

Of course there are some where SHE screwed it up, or widowers.

I am still trying to figure out why mine was available????????
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Old 07-13-2012, 11:27 AM
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Re: divorce

Hope for the best BUT be PREPARED for the worst.

I am not regretting the divorce..I wanted a MAN with cojones of his own.

And they may have filed, but they LOST one very special, unique and irreplacable lady....me.
and there is a part of them that knows that.
in some little back part of their brain ALL the time.
Absolutely! They will realize how wonderful you are after you're long gone!

Thanks for insight on divorce. That is the road my AH are going down. AH will have the same problems in his next r/s that he's having with me. I'll be long gone when he realizes what he lost in me. I'm pretty f'n amazing. I lost that in my marriage with the constant minimalizing, shaming, and blaming my AH threw at me. The irony here is it took him leaving me for me to figure it out that I dont want to be with him and I deserve better.
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Old 07-13-2012, 07:11 PM
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Gal, good for you...you've got that glow back!!!
It looks wonderful on you!
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Old 07-13-2012, 08:31 PM
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Normal stops when the drinking starts. I have not figured if it ever comes back.
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