NC with kids to deal with?
 

My AH left the house this past Sunday, and I'm thinking NC for us, and he seems to be doing it himself since then. I'm just wondering how this is going to work with our 4 kids. Should I set up some sort of temp custody/visitation/child support agreement? Should I just ignore him and deal with my issues? Should I set things up through my MIL? (he's staying with his parents)
I have no idea what to do and I hate everything being up in the air. :(

We communicated through email. I only responded to sane kid related communication. We had the state visitation schedule and used that. Eventually I learned to ignore him. If he contacted me for visitation I was fair and civil etc but the crazy ended when I quit trying to control that, make it happen, or go the extra mile.