Learn with Every Goodbye

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Old 06-23-2012, 07:06 PM
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To thine own self be true.
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Learn with Every Goodbye

After a while, you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning
And company doesn’t mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts
And presents aren’t promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats
With the grace of a woman,
not the grief of a child,

And you learn to build all your roads on today
Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans,
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight
And after a while, you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much.

So you plant your own garden
and you decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.

And you learn that you really can endure…
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth

And you learn
and you learn…
with every goodbye, you learn.
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Old 06-23-2012, 07:22 PM
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This is beautiful. Just what I needed right now!
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Old 06-23-2012, 07:27 PM
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Thanks. I've always loved that poem. When I was going thru a breakup once I actually planted a garden after reading it. ha ha It was a great garden!
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Wonderful. Just beautiful.

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Old 06-23-2012, 09:53 PM
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Beautiful and empowering
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Old 06-23-2012, 10:12 PM
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This used to be in my 'about me' on Facebook, beautiful
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Old 06-23-2012, 10:52 PM
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I memorized that poem, Comes the Dawn, a long time ago. "With every goodbye....you learn." Unfortunately some of us are slow learners (present party INCLUDED) .
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Thank you for a beautiful post- I shall copy it on my phone- it resonates with me as my garden has given me sanity and serenity over the years- it has been my lifeline- thank you again
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Great, thank you for posting!
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Old 06-24-2012, 04:54 AM
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Thank you for that. Much needed.
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I am so glad you posted that, as i lost track of it long ago. beautiful message-so true.
thank you sweetie,
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Old 06-24-2012, 07:22 AM
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This is absolutely comforting to me right now in my life! Thank you so much for posting this, really, you don't know how much I needed it!
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Old 06-25-2012, 12:40 AM
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I imagine you needed it as much as I did jackthedog. <3
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Old 06-25-2012, 08:43 AM
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I love this, thanks for sharing!
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