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sweetteewalls 05-20-2012 07:29 PM

progress...
 
I let my 4 yr old go with separated RAH overnight. It hurts to watch him and her walk away from our home we were just living in 3 weeks ago. Before I would've made up any reason she couldn't stay or ask him to stay but I let them go with no nonsense. I miss my husband so much and it kills me he just relapsed...but I cannot even let my mind go there. I have to just take care of my business to be the best person I can be. Its been rough but for the first time since he left...I know I will be just fine.

djs78 05-20-2012 07:40 PM

You did the right thing. You getting upset would have made it harder on you and your child. It will get better.

FindingJoy 05-20-2012 11:29 PM

I admire your strength. Must have been gut wrenching. You are doing the right thing for you and your daughter and that's all that matters.

Tuffgirl 05-21-2012 08:48 AM

Hoping you had a nice quiet evening and took good care of yourself.

As painful as it is, try to remember this too shall pass.

Hang in there! Prayers,
~T

DaveVelasco 05-21-2012 09:16 AM

Just do what you think is the best for your children. If you think what you did is enough then be positive on it.

wicked 05-21-2012 09:21 AM

As someone who has been there (watching the kids go with Dad),
I can promise you it will get better.


Its been rough but for the first time since he left...I know I will be just fine.
Yes, you will be just fine.

Beth


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