brownhorse

So, My DS10 had a choir concert tonight and XRA asked me to save him a seat and I did with my parents and me. He was late, whooped when they announced my son after they asked everyone not to, clapped and danced while they sang with DS4 and was absolutely embarrassing! So, he just text me hopes to see me tomorrow at baseball game. I do not know how to respond. Here are my options.

"I will be there but don't save me a seat. I rather sit by myself."

"I will be there but will not sit by you if act like tonight."


I know that my best option is to say nothing. But, then I risk a scene at the game.

suki44883

I wouldn't respond. Go to the game and sit where you want. If he starts anything, just take your son and leave. You don't owe him anything.

dollydo

Whose baseball game is this?

brownhorse

My son is playing, possible pitching his first game. Do we ever get away! See this is why everyone that starts a relationship with an alcoholic and says they want to give them a chance needs to listen up. Once you have kids, you never get away from the chaos!!! And it breaks your heart for your kids!!!!! I NEED TO SCREAM!

dollydo

Thanks, I just wasn't sure who was on first!

If it were me, I wouldn't respond, I would go, sit where I wanted to and cheer your son on!

Your heads up for getting into a relationship with an alcoholic/drug addict is sad, but true.

gunther84

Tell him he acted like a fool tonight and until he proves otherwise you would rather he doesn't bother you when you are at your children events. He cant be coddled.