Krys

Judging by your picture, you have not failed you have beautiful babies! In this crazy mess you got 2 great things out of it...that's more than a lot of people can say about breakups - alcohol or no alcohol. I feel like a failure too, but for different reasons and sometimes I have to remind myself that when I think people are thinking a certain way about me, most of the time it's just me projecting what I think about myself onto them. It's more likely that those people think you are strong for leaving and that your fiancee is an ass for giving you and those kids up. lol. Truth is we can both have successful relationships someday if we work at it and in the meantime we can make the other parts of our lives successful. Easy to say I know...I am still holding out a little hope for my relationship, but I've got one foot still planted firmly out the door thanks to you guys!