I can make it no matter what comes my way
 

My husband came this weekend for a visit. And for the first time since I walked out of our home in oct 2011 I feel so good about life. I reilize we have along way to go. But one day at a time. Still can't talk to him about the drinking, he was still doesn't get it. I know now that no matter what comes my way I'm never going back to live like that again. I have faith that god & only god can change my husband. Holding on to that prayer that if you ask god he can do anything.:

Congratulations Mari...what you are doing takes real courage. Belief in yourself and your Higher Power can take each of us a long way. Blessings to you

Welcome to the SR family!

Please continue to make yourself at home by reading and posting as much as needed.

I think you are showing wonderful recovery in appreciated your current quality of life! Good on you!

Sending you support and encouragement.

thanks to everyone, because everydays a stuggle
 

thanks everyone, everydays a stuggle but for me a light & brighter everyday.
i learned not to try to control him but me. next month will be our 42 yrs of marriage. and right now staying steady on my course to heal myself. to work on the anger, i get up in morning with relief. yes in the choice i made. i am
a person who finally loves me. takes deep breathes & trying to enjoy life, one day at a time. with a postive out look on life & eveything will fall in place.
very hopeful for just today. thanks to all of you. we can make it. we can.:a122: