Living in peace with myself

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Old 10-03-2011, 07:47 AM
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Living in peace with myself

Last Night my RAH started a step study group and before he went he was unsure if he wanted to go and ask what I thought he should do. I told him it was up to him and I cant make the choice for him. I did tell him that I thought it would be a good thing for him and our son (16yrs old) also thought it would be good for him but he should only do it if he is ready. He went to the meeting and said he will go to it again next week.
Before going to T, SR, ALanon and all of my readings, I would have been telling him that he had to go and it would have turned into an argument. I feel real good about how I handled this and just want to thank everyone for there posts that have helped me so much.
I am taking control of my life instead of the A taking control
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Old 10-03-2011, 08:12 AM
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I think you did a fantastic job of handling it, dear!
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Old 10-03-2011, 08:14 AM
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Good job!
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it works if we work it......
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Old 10-03-2011, 11:08 AM
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Carol Star - SO TRUE!!!!!!! not only does it work it feels pretty good too
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