Don't Know How to Deal with Alcoholic Mother.
(Say what you mean, mean what you say, but don't say it mean.)
You matter. You are allowed your truth. You have the power to oversee your own mental health, and allow it to be priority over someone else's mental health over which you truly have no control, but feel you might.
You cannot coddle or save an alcoholic into doing what you want them to do. You cannot twist yourself into a pretzel, trying to avoid their reactions to truths, and live a healthy life. They must ultimately face whatever circumstances that eventually cause them to want to help themselves, change themselves. Some never get to that point, and this is the hardest part of acceptance for their loved ones.
I'm very glad to hear your brother's care is secure.
Sending support,
CLMI
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