sherby

My E.x.a.b.f. called last night and left another V.M. For some odd reason it only re-assures me that I done the right thing..
First he says "I have drunk a half pint of vodka" Me thinking to myself "Yeah that doesn't suprise me"= So Glad I Left
Him saying "Your tormenting Me", Me thinking to myself= "No more are you tormenting me & my life"
Him Saying "You don't have the right to end this relationship" Me Thinking="I Did End It & So Happy Now That I Did"
Last Thing He Said "I Will Always Love You" Me Thinking= You Will Always Love Alcohol More Than You or Anyone Else"

Point to all of this and I do hope some of you all get it and I also hope it helps someone else that's struggling with this situation:
They Don't change unless they want too. Also A Reminder that it doesn't get better, only worst his choice used to be only beer, so now he has stepped it up a notch.
See not so long ago I was so temped to call him, so this only confirms I'm just fine where I'm at which is a "healthy & Much more happier Enviroment"

suki44883

Glad you realize leaving the relationship was a good thing. Why not just go no contact and block him from you phone? Do you really need his drunk dialing nonsense?

dollydo

Certainly reconfirms that you have made the right decision. I agree w/suki why not block him?

Keep moving forward to a place of peace and happiness.

sherby

Well I have considered blocking him... But For Me It Just Helps Hearing Is Lame & Blame Excuses. The Things He Says No Longer Effects Me, I'm sure he will eventually tired of talking to the Voice Mail. But I have moved on, I'm sure once he reels in another victim, He will leave me alone, However I must say I do feel sorry for the next one.