Today's my anniversary
 

My wedding anniversary that is. And I am sad. And oddly, it is making me sadder still that I have NO desire to reach out to AH. I guess I really am moving on...

I'm just remembering how happy I was 8 yrs ago today and how much I meant the vows I made before AH, our friends and family and God and I can't believe how many years I've spent fighting for this marriage when I was the only one fighting for it.

Anyway, I just needed to share with someone that today's our anniversary and it's sad for me.

((((hug)))) Years ago on valentines day I was sad.... so I went and brought a new car! That cheered me up. Do something special for you. Give yourself a pedicure, go out to lunch, talk a walk....

WTBH :ValA006:

A flower to make you feel better on a said day.

((((hugs))))

Your friend,

:hug: :hug:

I wasn't thinking too clearly when EXAH and I decided to get married on Valentine's Day.

Needless to say, that was a painful holiday for me for many years.

I'm sorry you're hurting today, hon.

I was in the same spot just last week, ours was the big 10 and I had filed divorce papers only 4 days before that.
Know exactly how you feel!