Don't know what to believe..(new)
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Join Date: Mar 2009
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I think it is the Lundy book that says they "lose the ability for guilt and remorse." It isn't you. Even though I was married to him my X wasn't over his X. They had two kids together 9 and 10 when we married so we saw her on the "exchange" weekends. She divorced him....but they had issues. She and I communicated just fine about the kids but he wasn't over her. She was over him but they communicated because of the kids and all did holidays around each other/ ugh that was another horror story/ HOLIDAYS- YUK ! Glad it is behind me.
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Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: columbus ohio
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Yeah, Searchbug, he did all of the work, so you're off the hook from doing the whole "I'm breaking up with you dance!" If you were the one who dumped him, then you'd have an entirely different problem on your hands because he would feel soooo out of control which could allow him to give himself permission to be all kinds of crazy! Give yourself a break and enjoy your life! Try to find the positives from your observation of that experience!!
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