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LeadHatter 06-17-2011 02:02 PM

what the A thinks of you is more important than what you think about yourself HELP
 
ok so i have an A living next door. Im going to put music on which i know sometimes the A has heard in the past. I don't want to put on love music in case the A next door thinks the music is about him and im a real lovey.

this is ridiculous. I wouldn't play it loud but im so in fear of the A coming round or any confrontation with him that i don't allow myself to play music i enjoy

this is clearly ridiculous

PLEASE HELP

Shellcrusher 06-17-2011 02:15 PM

I recommend a serious dose of very loud Death Metal, preferably stuff from the Viking bands! After the A is left with soiled pants, they'll start wondering how sharp your battle axe is. End result is eternal peace without having to worry about the A or your music.

Sorry. I can't help you here so I found a little humor in my bag of tricks.

Dee74 06-17-2011 02:26 PM

You have the right to play whatever music you like at a reasonable level Kevin.
You also have the right to refuse entry to anyone you like.

but...if thinking about it has you anxious, invest in a set of headphones - turn it up as loud as you like and you won't hear the door.

D

LeadHatter 06-17-2011 02:56 PM

aint about rights man its something deeper

dollydo 06-17-2011 03:30 PM

I need somemore verbage b/4 I can respond, at this time,I have no clue.

Dee74 06-17-2011 03:38 PM

I obviously got the wrong end of the stick Kev - sorry.

D

LeadHatter 06-17-2011 03:47 PM

no problem


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