MAY 14 in The Little Blue Book ONE DAY at a TIME in AL-ANON
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MAY 14 in The Little Blue Book ONE DAY at a TIME in AL-ANON
MAY 14 in The Little Blue Book ONE DAY at a TIME in AL-ANON:
A long-time friend of AA, Dr. Harry M. Tiebout, clarified brilliantly the difference between submission and the surrender idea which is implied in Step One of the Twelve Steps.
“In submission,” he said, “an individual accepts reality consciously but not unconsciously. He accept as a practical fact that he cannot at the moment conquer reality, but lurking in his unconscious is the feeling: ‘there’ll come a day…’ This is no real acceptance; the struggle is still going on. With this temporary yielding, tension continues But when the ability to accept functions on the unconscious level as surrender, there is no residual battle; there is relaxation and freedom from strain and conflict.”
Today’s Reminder
Al-Anon tells me that complete acceptance of my powerlessness to change the alcoholic can, indeed, create a new life for me. When I really let go and stop playing God, things will begin to happen. Because at that point, my Higher Power has an opportunity to correct what seemed to me so hopeless.
“Acceptance appears to be a state of mind in which the individual accepts, rather than rejects or resists; he is able to take things in, to go along with, to cooperate and be receptive.’ (Dr. Harry M. Tiebout)
A long-time friend of AA, Dr. Harry M. Tiebout, clarified brilliantly the difference between submission and the surrender idea which is implied in Step One of the Twelve Steps.
“In submission,” he said, “an individual accepts reality consciously but not unconsciously. He accept as a practical fact that he cannot at the moment conquer reality, but lurking in his unconscious is the feeling: ‘there’ll come a day…’ This is no real acceptance; the struggle is still going on. With this temporary yielding, tension continues But when the ability to accept functions on the unconscious level as surrender, there is no residual battle; there is relaxation and freedom from strain and conflict.”
Today’s Reminder
Al-Anon tells me that complete acceptance of my powerlessness to change the alcoholic can, indeed, create a new life for me. When I really let go and stop playing God, things will begin to happen. Because at that point, my Higher Power has an opportunity to correct what seemed to me so hopeless.
“Acceptance appears to be a state of mind in which the individual accepts, rather than rejects or resists; he is able to take things in, to go along with, to cooperate and be receptive.’ (Dr. Harry M. Tiebout)
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