And he lost his job, so I get to support everyone alone again. Great!
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Sigh, thank you so much for asking. 
I'm okay today, feeling better now that I've had some space and time to think. Digging into my books and SR and trying to wind my way through this mess. I still have no idea what to do about the husband, but I know I'm going to be okay no matter what he does. That's not on me.
I'm okay today, feeling better now that I've had some space and time to think. Digging into my books and SR and trying to wind my way through this mess. I still have no idea what to do about the husband, but I know I'm going to be okay no matter what he does. That's not on me.
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I'll tell you what I think. I think this guy is useless as **** on a bull and always will be. It's like having a giant baby who isn't cute and innocent but still makes a lot of s*** for you to clean up.
That happy family you envisioned with this guy? That ain't happening. Please focus on keeping yourself healthy for this baby, you'll be a great mom and if you take the energy you expend worrying about this guy and use it for building a future without him, you'll all be better off.
/the world is full of men who don't have his problems
//you're not Florence Nightingale or God, you don't have to fix God's mistakes.
///sorry to sound so blunt, but admit it you've thought this already
That happy family you envisioned with this guy? That ain't happening. Please focus on keeping yourself healthy for this baby, you'll be a great mom and if you take the energy you expend worrying about this guy and use it for building a future without him, you'll all be better off.
/the world is full of men who don't have his problems
//you're not Florence Nightingale or God, you don't have to fix God's mistakes.
///sorry to sound so blunt, but admit it you've thought this already
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