It's a win for me!
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It's a win for me!
Today - my supervisor talked to his supervisor who called HR and was told uncond to talk to my husband about boundaries.
Two hours later my AH called me from the car dealer's to let me know that he turned the car in for a new one and needed my signature to make it final!
I met with my lawyer who formalized an uncontested D now which I signed and will send to my AH to sign.
I went to the car dealer and signed off - they were very accomodating considering a few extra requests to satisfy the lawyer. Thanked them and proceeded to call AH.
I told him all was done, the papers will come for his signature and in 6 weeks we will be done for good.
He was appreciative - get that one - I was relieved and sad at the same time
Am now sitting in amazement at the quick turn of events - and want to tell everyone here how important a role you played in comforting me and supporting me through this.
I have never had this kind of support in a very long time and only got through it because of all of you!
I am grateful and relieved and changed forever.
Two hours later my AH called me from the car dealer's to let me know that he turned the car in for a new one and needed my signature to make it final!
I met with my lawyer who formalized an uncontested D now which I signed and will send to my AH to sign.
I went to the car dealer and signed off - they were very accomodating considering a few extra requests to satisfy the lawyer. Thanked them and proceeded to call AH.
I told him all was done, the papers will come for his signature and in 6 weeks we will be done for good.
He was appreciative - get that one - I was relieved and sad at the same time
Am now sitting in amazement at the quick turn of events - and want to tell everyone here how important a role you played in comforting me and supporting me through this.
I have never had this kind of support in a very long time and only got through it because of all of you!
I am grateful and relieved and changed forever.
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Hi Kassie,
Wow, you sound great! I'm happy for you that things are moving quickly and also understand the sadness there. You're moving into a new phase of life and you sound strong and vibrant. By the way, I haven't made much of an appearance on here of late and I'm looking forward to some more F&F chats and meetings. Your post is putting a smile on my face...I'm proud of you Kassie!
Wow, you sound great! I'm happy for you that things are moving quickly and also understand the sadness there. You're moving into a new phase of life and you sound strong and vibrant. By the way, I haven't made much of an appearance on here of late and I'm looking forward to some more F&F chats and meetings. Your post is putting a smile on my face...I'm proud of you Kassie!
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I was very fortunate in that my AH signed the divorce papers that my attorney had prepared and as painful as it was at least it was relatively simple and uncontested.
Hang in there. It will be better.
Hang in there. It will be better.
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I am so happy for you that this long road has ended. I want the same thing and hope it goes smoothly. I hear you with the feeling sad. I go back and forth with my emotions too but I also know I am doing the right thing.
Best of Luck with your new chapter of Life. Enjoy!!!
Best of Luck with your new chapter of Life. Enjoy!!!
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Wanted ppl to know that as far as any abuse goes - my lawyer added to the D paperwork. He made a statement of reasonable behavior when in public, at the work place, and a request to refrain from talking about personal issues with me whenever anyone is within hearing distance.
This is not necessarily enforceable by itself but it establishes documentation and notification to my AH for future reference. I thought this part was nice.
FYI for others considering the D process.
This is not necessarily enforceable by itself but it establishes documentation and notification to my AH for future reference. I thought this part was nice.
FYI for others considering the D process.
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Hooray!
What awesome news!
I am so excited for you!
Everything is coming together!
Finally the car is taken care of, and there's a "papertrail" at work regarding his behavior, and the divorce paperwork will include the request as well...
Everything is falling into place.
I am so HAPPY!
You deserve it.
What awesome news!
I am so excited for you!
Everything is coming together!
Finally the car is taken care of, and there's a "papertrail" at work regarding his behavior, and the divorce paperwork will include the request as well...
Everything is falling into place.
I am so HAPPY!
You deserve it.
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Kassie the sadness and mourning are part of a process you need to go through to prepare for the next stage ...... I know you will get through it with grace and compassion for your self as you go through these very important, healthy changes in your life.
Life is so much better than what we have known, there is so much more in store for you, beauty, peace, satisfaction, real love, real friends and activities...... I never thought I would feel those kind of things and ahhhhhhhh finally I am able to realize so much, and all the pain and mourning times were worth this peace, this ability to take a journey within without any noise around me, this new pair of eyes.... the philosopher Osho says "when you are sad, you are alone, but when you celebrate, the whole universe celebrates with you" and I find that true, I swear even the birds started singing for me... or, more like, they were always singing but I was in a dark place where I didn't hear them.
I am so glad for you!
Life is so much better than what we have known, there is so much more in store for you, beauty, peace, satisfaction, real love, real friends and activities...... I never thought I would feel those kind of things and ahhhhhhhh finally I am able to realize so much, and all the pain and mourning times were worth this peace, this ability to take a journey within without any noise around me, this new pair of eyes.... the philosopher Osho says "when you are sad, you are alone, but when you celebrate, the whole universe celebrates with you" and I find that true, I swear even the birds started singing for me... or, more like, they were always singing but I was in a dark place where I didn't hear them.
I am so glad for you!
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