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Old 03-10-2011, 02:37 PM
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Letter to AH

I decided to type a letter and let him know why I am separating and what I am planning on doing. I figured it would be better to do it it letter form. This way no emotional BS and he can let it sink in. Basically telling him not changing my mind and it is for real this time.

I ask him if he read the letter and he said yes. I said so you unerstand and he says why you being so ridiculous. WTF Do they ever get it. What would you do next?
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Old 03-10-2011, 02:40 PM
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Continue on with your plans to separate. You told him what you were going to do, so now do it. Doesn't sound like he believes you, so prove it.
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Old 03-10-2011, 02:55 PM
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Ugh... Gotta be uncomfortable in your house. It helped me to get out a lot.
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Old 03-10-2011, 03:15 PM
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Follow through, jackrussellgirl. All the way. Or everything you said in that letter means nothing.

All you have to do is follow through - you don't have to do anything more drastic than that.
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Old 03-10-2011, 04:15 PM
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Uncomfortable is an understatement! It totally sucks when you know you are done and have to live like this but I suppose it could be worse. Hopefully the house will sell real fast. I have been going out alot which does help. I have a St. Pattys Day party this weekend so that should be fun.

I just hate pulling in my driveway and coming in the house now. The tension is terrible and he still tries to get me to do things with him. WHY WHY WHY!! I will never understand them. Stop asking me please. I just keep saying No Thanks.

I keep singing that song "Put one foot in front of the other and soon you will be walking out the door".
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