nodaybut2day

Can I vent here?!

Yesterday, I receive a FB message from XAH's 3rd wife/baby mama. She tells me that XAH has been emailing her recently, drunkenly telling her what a horrible person I am. Now he's emailing her to tell her that since he's not going to be paying me child support, he'll be paying her, this after 5 years of no contact, swearing up and down that her son isn't his, and being over 10K in arrears.

Do I get a W.T.F.?

It's clear that XAH has found a way to keep his job and get paid under the table. I'm also thinking that he's probably real lonely now that DSS is living in another province, so he's looking to get back in touch with his 3rd son--by dangling child support payments in front of his mother's eyes, so he can have another child to control and manipulate...The worst part is...he STILL hasn't moved away!

Can someone *PLEASE* make this wacko go away? Pretty please??!

tjp613

Hey, I'm looking at this as GREAT NEWS! Perhaps he's let go of you and latched onto her!!?! Yippppeeeeeeee!! No Contact Works!!!!!

tallulah

WTF!

Proof.. if it were needed.. you are soooo much better with him OUTTA the picture. Meh.. let him whinge and moan.. those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind.

Tx

theuncertainty

Seriously.

It seems like "Well, I'm not getting a rise out of her when I e-mail her or her family or when I contact CS... I know! I'll contact an X before her, bug her and SHE can contact NoDay; I know she will. And THAT should show Noday! She'll see what she's missing out on then!"

Good god. (Didn't there used to be a smilie that barfed a rubber chicken?)

Hang in there NoDay. Hugs. Hugs. Hugs.

JenT1968

he's a piece of work. But he's living in a dream world where he things people will continue to buy into his crap: they won't, you don't. he may not have a job, more manipulation/just quack quack quack, whatever.

LexieCat

I gotta give ya credit, noday, I think your ex takes the prize for being one of the most bizarre alcoholics I've run across.

Maybe we should make up a little trophy for him.

wicked

yeah, the trophy should be the smiley barfing a rubber chicken.
lol

nodaybut2day

We could market those wicked...there MUST be other weirdos like my XAH out there in dire need of a smiley barfing a rubber chicken trophy!

sailorjohn

Well, I have at least a passing familiarity with FB. Why don't you simply block this person?

If you block this person, they can't send you messages. Ever.

Jazzman

Sounds like he's in it for the reaction. You stop reacting and he moves on to his next victim. So by ignoring him you can put him out of your misery.

nodaybut2day

Jazzman...I guess I'm just frustrated that even having his wages garnished, he still hasn't left town. I was sort of counting on that actually. He whined and b*tched for years about the horrible Quebecers and how bad this place is for poor anglos like him...I was almost certain he'd end up leaving for Ontario the minute his precious money was touched.

I guess I underestimated how lazy he is...a move is complicated and a lot of work.

As for the FB message, it came from his 3rd babymama, with whom I want to keep in touch for the sake of our children. I figured they may want to meet someday. XAH is not and never will be a FB friend of mine...

fourmaggie

I just had to do this....:rotfxko

ShiningStars

fourmaggie

the trophy is for the XAH