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Originally Posted by keepinon 
.I would take this as confirmation that the divorce was a great idea..
Emotional Blackmail. Yes it is. That is always the hook, the weapon. It has been for a very very long time. I have a book on Emotional Blackmail that I have had for at least a year. I need to drag that out. It was a bit overwhelming when I first bought it and I didn't read it. I did read Codependent No More and a few others at that time. I'm in a more stable place now and it is time. Thanks.
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Originally Posted by naive
i am exceptional, can't you see that! those other things that happen to alcoholics, like losing their family and their jobs, can't happen to me. this is only a minor setback, this rehab mumbo jumbo. can't you see what a great team we make! because i am exceptional, our family will not be a broken one. you'll see. that kind of stuff only happens to alcoholics, and i am not an alcoholic. this is just a result of the phase your going through.
Thank you, naive!
Hugs to you, Thumper.
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I have a book on Emotional Blackmail that I have had for at least a year. I need to drag that out.
I remember the FOG
Fear
Obligation
Guilt.
Amazing what you can see when the FOG has lifted.
I can see for miles now.
On my pink cloud with combat boots.
A little digital decoder that we can take every where.
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