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(((jrlcpl))) she's being forced to deal with her consequences and she doesn't like it. She's going to put the blame on you, make promises, do whatever she thinks she can to NOT deal with the consequences.
I know this because not only am I a recovering codie, I'm an RA. I doubt, seriously, I would be clean if the consequences hadn't been bad and my family allowed me to deal with them.
You're not doing anything wrong. You're protecting yourself and your children from the insanity. I know it doesn't feel good, but it's truly the best for all 4 of you, IMO.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy
I know this because not only am I a recovering codie, I'm an RA. I doubt, seriously, I would be clean if the consequences hadn't been bad and my family allowed me to deal with them.
You're not doing anything wrong. You're protecting yourself and your children from the insanity. I know it doesn't feel good, but it's truly the best for all 4 of you, IMO.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy
She is trying to make me feel like a terrible person for doing what I am doing.
Too bad about her. You are NOT responsible for her feelings. If you start to buy any of that BS, come check in here, O.K.?
Lots of strong Dads on this board, that's very good.
Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote
Too bad about her. You are NOT responsible for her feelings. If you start to buy any of that BS, come check in here, O.K.?
Lots of strong Dads on this board, that's very good.
Thanks and God bless us all,
Coyote
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Wow I can totally relate to your fears....Im seeking legal advice and trying to get my 2 babies now. All I can say is all of us dads get the brunt end of the legal system...The damn mother could snort coke off our kids back while sleeping with a stranger and keep kids. We spank them one time for acting up will never see them again....Sorry but so true!
Good luck!
Good luck!
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Wow I can totally relate to your fears....Im seeking legal advice and trying to get my 2 babies now. All I can say is all of us dads get the brunt end of the legal system...The damn mother could snort coke off our kids back while sleeping with a stranger and keep kids. We spank them one time for acting up will never see them again....Sorry but so true!
Good luck!
Good luck!
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Wow I can totally relate to your fears....Im seeking legal advice and trying to get my 2 babies now. All I can say is all of us dads get the brunt end of the legal system...The damn mother could snort coke off our kids back while sleeping with a stranger and keep kids. We spank them one time for acting up will never see them again....Sorry but so true!
Good luck!
Good luck!
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