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Old 01-02-2011, 01:56 PM
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Welcome ... you are now in a safe place.
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Old 01-02-2011, 04:03 PM
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Are you afraid to venture out into the world on your own? I found that fear was, initially, the great immobilizer, and then later, a great mobilizer. By that I mean when the fear of staying outweighed the fear of leaving, I took action.
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Old 01-02-2011, 05:21 PM
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Yes it is disheartening to realize how many of us are on the same road. I had no idea either.

I'm sorry it hurts so much.

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Old 01-02-2011, 06:29 PM
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Originally Posted by heartonmysleeve View Post
He's not physically abusive. But words hurt too.
I actually called my A verbally abusive once...

I've never seen his face so red, nor have I seen anyone more interested in yelling about how abusive I am because I didn't back him up enough.

It's not you, and no, you're not alone.
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Old 01-02-2011, 07:52 PM
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Welcome and hugs! this forum is full of wonderful, strong people. There is so much hope and light at the end of the tunnel.

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We can't control them
We can't cure them
We didn't cause their problem
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