Welcome ... you are now in a safe place.

Are you afraid to venture out into the world on your own? I found that fear was, initially, the great immobilizer, and then later, a great mobilizer. By that I mean when the fear of staying outweighed the fear of leaving, I took action.

Yes it is disheartening to realize how many of us are on the same road. I had no idea either.

I'm sorry it hurts so much.

V

I actually called my A verbally abusive once...

I've never seen his face so red, nor have I seen anyone more interested in yelling about how abusive I am because I didn't back him up enough.

It's not you, and no, you're not alone.

Welcome and hugs! this forum is full of wonderful, strong people. There is so much hope and light at the end of the tunnel.

Remember the 3 Cs

We can't control them
We can't cure them
We didn't cause their problem