TOPIC: I Couldn't Wait Any Longer Hi Im Sharon and Im the Alcoholic. By the grace of my HP and family who stepped in with an intervention 20 yrs. ago, I havent found it necessary to pick up a drink of alcohol since 8-11-90. I have alot to be grateful for today because they stepped in at that time in my life getting me help I so desperately needed to stay alive. Over the years I have had a recovery program and Faith to guide me each day learning to live happy joyous and free without alcohol. In the course of my recovery journey I increasingly changed for the better leaving my family behind scratching their head as to what happened to me. My husband at the time in early recovery did attend al-anon for maybe 2 meetings learning one one...dettachment. He figured that was all he needed to have that would constitute working a program. Down the road we split apart as I left him standing in the dust. I tried to wait for him to catch up with me so we could understand each other, but it never happened ending a 25 yr marriage. I had and wanted to take care of me and wanted and needed a partner beside me. I know my part I played in the marriage and fully understand my addiction and affects it had on the family. :tappingHowever, with programs offered to the partners of the alcoholics is available for the taking in order to make a marriage stay alive and well. All I can say is...you snooze u loose. Ive moved on in my life as I live and breath my recovery program a day at a time. If you want to stay up with me, then there is a program available to u too.:c029: |
Thank you for that, Sharon! Hugs to you. |
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