my children are suffering because of me
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my children are suffering because of me
That's what a drunken AH told me on the phone tonight.
Because i haven't fully moved into the new house and the air conditioning is broken in this house and the ******* fan just died, he has the nerve to tell me my children are suffering because of me. Because I haven't moved us.
Not sure what I expected from him. He consistently shocks me with this bs, so that's my own denial. *******.
If I choose to talk to him on any level, I'll get these things, it's predictable. Especially when he's drunk. I answered the phone because he just got out of work and we needed to talk about our oldest son and his school. But no. Instead we're talking about how my children are suffering because of me.
Now, I know I have issues. I have not gotten us moved on my own and I know why, just figured it out two days ago actually, but then stepped it up to get us out of here.
The thing that pisses me off is HIM saying that to me. Oh the irony.
I"m going to snuggle up with my journey from abandonment to healing book and forget about him. Oh, turned the phone off too, after i hung up. No thank you.
Because i haven't fully moved into the new house and the air conditioning is broken in this house and the ******* fan just died, he has the nerve to tell me my children are suffering because of me. Because I haven't moved us.
Not sure what I expected from him. He consistently shocks me with this bs, so that's my own denial. *******.
If I choose to talk to him on any level, I'll get these things, it's predictable. Especially when he's drunk. I answered the phone because he just got out of work and we needed to talk about our oldest son and his school. But no. Instead we're talking about how my children are suffering because of me.
Now, I know I have issues. I have not gotten us moved on my own and I know why, just figured it out two days ago actually, but then stepped it up to get us out of here.
The thing that pisses me off is HIM saying that to me. Oh the irony.
I"m going to snuggle up with my journey from abandonment to healing book and forget about him. Oh, turned the phone off too, after i hung up. No thank you.
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They know what buttons to push.
Maybe read that thread "Alcoholic Liar' (I got such a kick out of that)
and do something unique for you? At least you'd be smiling when you answer!
Maybe read that thread "Alcoholic Liar' (I got such a kick out of that)
and do something unique for you? At least you'd be smiling when you answer!
Dont let him do that, whatever he says is a lie lie lie 
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I agree with what others have said. When he says stuff like that, just imagine that you are a rock and the words splash around you, but they have no power to move you.
He's trying to get prod where he knows it will hurt, so just don't let it. Consider the source.
He's trying to get prod where he knows it will hurt, so just don't let it. Consider the source.
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Oh yes, your kids are suffering badly because of you not moving them, and also the broken airconditioning. How could you do this to them, transform? Tut, tut.
This cr*p is from the man, who made life hell with HIS drunken behavior and cheated with some bimbo.....but nothing he has done equals the suffering you are causing them.
Laugh girl, as he is so far up the road of denial and tossing blame that he really is a big joke. I guess if he really faced the misery he has caused, it would blow his mind....what there is left.
If the hardest things your kids have to cop in life is these 2 items, they will survive well.
As for him, tell him to go bag his head,
and hang up on his twaddle.
God bless
This cr*p is from the man, who made life hell with HIS drunken behavior and cheated with some bimbo.....but nothing he has done equals the suffering you are causing them.
Laugh girl, as he is so far up the road of denial and tossing blame that he really is a big joke. I guess if he really faced the misery he has caused, it would blow his mind....what there is left.
If the hardest things your kids have to cop in life is these 2 items, they will survive well.
As for him, tell him to go bag his head,
and hang up on his twaddle.God bless
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Jadmack you gave me a beautiful idea.
When I'm out late at night and am approached by drunks, I either speak Lakota to them (the teeny bit i know) or Shakespeare. That confuses them and they go away. The Lakota because it's clearly another language, just not one that most folks have heard."Oyate nimke wacin yelo!"
And Shakespeare is confusing even for sober folks, "My Mistress' eyes are nothing like the sun!"
Now I can also speak Aussie! (You are in Australia right?)
Imagine drunken AH or any other drunk idiots confusion here in the US when I say, "Oh go bag your head and hang up on your twaddle!"
When I'm out late at night and am approached by drunks, I either speak Lakota to them (the teeny bit i know) or Shakespeare. That confuses them and they go away. The Lakota because it's clearly another language, just not one that most folks have heard."Oyate nimke wacin yelo!"
And Shakespeare is confusing even for sober folks, "My Mistress' eyes are nothing like the sun!"
Now I can also speak Aussie! (You are in Australia right?)
Imagine drunken AH or any other drunk idiots confusion here in the US when I say, "Oh go bag your head and hang up on your twaddle!"
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... All those visualizations are great. Ah the manipulation, the low kicks, the Jekyll and Hyde. Somehow I have been making myself crazy once again for this or that, but once you consider the source, with a cold rational mind, you realize it is not worth your time, attention or focus. Insane asylum is right.
I wish you could give him a straight jacket as a gift so he is no longer able to send stupid meaningless messages or voice his thoughts out loud. My theory is that there are not many neurons left by now.
Deep breath....
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He's not affecting me. I'm having a great day.
This morning in the shower I solved several problems regarding: my personal life, my newspaper and my political strategies. I'm feeling grateful and happy to be able to send up prayers and hear the answers. Fresh out of the shower, I came to the computer and there, greeting me on my screen savor, was a "Power Shot" picture of me and my sisters all looking tough for the camera. We have strength in numbers my friends. Strength in our prayers, drawn from our sisters. Pray, listen, take action. Repeat
This morning in the shower I solved several problems regarding: my personal life, my newspaper and my political strategies. I'm feeling grateful and happy to be able to send up prayers and hear the answers. Fresh out of the shower, I came to the computer and there, greeting me on my screen savor, was a "Power Shot" picture of me and my sisters all looking tough for the camera. We have strength in numbers my friends. Strength in our prayers, drawn from our sisters. Pray, listen, take action. Repeat
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Trannie, there is an old saying "down here" for when some jerk is trying to con us into some whacky stuff, and it is 
which, translates into
"don't bullsh*t me, man."
When your AH tries it on again, as of course he will....imagine him as a
How can you possibly take him seriously when he comes thru as this little critter?
God bless
which, translates into "don't bullsh*t me, man."
When your AH tries it on again, as of course he will....imagine him as a
How can you possibly take him seriously when he comes thru as this little critter?
God bless
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