coffeedrinker

I think we would be being dishonest if we didn't admit to wondering, or even fantasizing about being in a functional relationship with someone we find attractive.

You seem to have your feel on the ground, Transform (even if you might have let a little notion of Mr. Gorgeous and you into your mind)

transformyself

Thanks everyone.

This thread made me examine my "real" motivations for the original post, and I"m happy to announce that in the two days since I had lunch with this man, I've been so busy with my life that I've not really thought about him except when I come here. Work, kids, moving BS. I really do have a very full life.

I went out last night with a group of friends, we had SO much fun, I can't even tell you. I love being single! My business partner whined for hours before we left the bar, i wanted to stay and make mischeif, but she just broke up with her boyfriend and was a total crybaby about leaving. She was my ride so I had to leave with her. I was pissed! I would have stayed all night, I was having a ball.

This morning I realized I no longer have that stab of pain or jealousy when I see happy couples, I just think- when I want that, or am ready, I 'll have it too.

Live

I love being around recovered people...they are some of the most genuine and honest and ethical people I have ever met!

and that is attractive no matter what!

SlvrMag

I'm glad you met someone who put a smile on your face!