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Old 08-19-2010, 01:35 PM
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Yes La I see what your saying

It's the - ohhh come on let's do it - I know you want it will be sooo nice (whiningggg)

It's almost like it's easy to get the concept if they are actively drinking.

Don't do this - don't do this - don't do that

There more of a fine line when we're living alcohol free but learning how deal as that free couple.

Thanks for the insight!!:ghug3
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Old 08-20-2010, 01:57 PM
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Lateeda, ChrrisT, right on the money. When expectation is attached and the whole whiny thing because you want what you want, and now, and everyone to bend to your will. Fine line.
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Old 08-20-2010, 02:06 PM
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ChrrisT, right on the money.
I'm gonna print and save if you don't mind - it's so rare
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Old 08-21-2010, 07:41 AM
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It's like a light bulb when I finally saw it - and now I can recognize it when it's happening and try hard not to trudge down the road. I recognize that over so many years I stepped on so many people, AH included, not respecting them or their boundaries. At the time it felt ok because I justified why mine was the right way, but now realize how unaware I was. As my sponsor says - you don't know what you don't know. Once you do know, it really opens your eyes.
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