mydogsnme

I can't do this anymore. Drinking with him. So, yes, I am an enabler. It was fun at first, partying and having a good time. But it's not anymore. Now,he drinks untold he passes out, gets blackouts and curses at me,drives drunk, and is losing his memory. Flat out told me he's not leaving (it's my home ) and he is not quitting. I need to take my life back,fix me,and keep myself and my daughter safe. ? One day at a time? But I may go crazy first.

ANGELINA243

You are not alone. Glad you are here. There is hope. I found out that I couldn't "fix" me, but there were others around that could help me. Yes, getting your life back on track for both you and your daughter is important. Yes, safety is very important for the both of you too. Keep posting. There are lots of nice folks here that can offer support as well as tell some of their own personal experience. You don't have to be a prisoner of your husband's disease. Help is available. We do recover.