brilliant quote from The Grief Club
 

As Melody Beattie says in the Grief Club

You don't eat an elephant all at once.
You eat it a bite at a time.
But, I don't want to eat an elephant!
I know, but there's one on your plate.

That just says so much.
She says the thing you are missing is not the magic piece. Every moment you live is magic.

Amen.
:) Peace